Fwd: What Hurts
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What hurts…
- letting go of the person you’ve just learned to love
- reminiscing the good times you’ve shared together
- shielding your heart to love somebody
- trying to hide what you really feel
- trying to hide tears that involuntarily falls from your eyes
- loving a person too much
- giving up someone you never thought of giving up
- having the right love at the wrong time
- taking the risk of falling in love again
- hiding your relationship from someone else
- controlling your feelings to avoid hurting a friend
- thinking of him every waking and sleeping moment, knowing all the while, that he never even thinks a single thought of you
- letting go, because every time you see the person, you only fall deeper
- holding back, only to find out when it’s too late, you both feel the same way, but were only scared to lose each other so much that you didn’t let the feelings out
- finding the perfect boy — the only problem is he doesn’t love you
- helping the one you love court your friend
- seeing the one you love crying for someone else
- the waiting also hurts like hell
- having to hear — “I’ve met someone” or “I’ve fallen for someone else”
- agreeing to his wish to “just be friends”
- asking his freedom back ‘coz “he’d be happier with her”
- asking you to “forget everything that happened” and be “normal” friends again
- hearing that you are treated as a “sister”
- sharing his future plans with the girl with you
- you stopped being friends because his girlfriend asked him to
- being denied in front of the people
- telling you lies, where he’d been actually, he was with a “new friend” or an “old flame”
- he told he’d be leaving you to return to his ex (the one he left for you!)
- breaking someone’s heart
- fighting for that one thing that would make you happy
- that is, holding on to a person who cannot guarantee his commitment unless he fixes himself… then you are left hanging for the moment… the he says time will tell… but you still decided to hope in his love and trust him
- pretending you’re okay when inside you’re dying
- pretending to be strong and recognizing your weaknesses
- lying in bed each night, thinking of that special person you can never have
- being with someone you can’t actually love
- pretending you don’t love a person whom you actually love
- being in love
- letting go even if you really don’t want to… having no right to say you are hurting because it was your decision
- seeing the person you love hurt because of you… and not being able to help that person
- having the courage to say I love you to the person you love and finding out afterwards that things will never be the same again when he/she doesn’t treat you with the same closeness before
- having to face that fact that someone is capable of completely destroying the wall that you have set for yourself, leaving you weak and vulnerable
- admitting that you love someone despite his imperfections
- finding out that the more you try to hate him, the more you end up loving him, perhaps even more that before
